IMLIBENLA WATI
REIGNING MISS WORLD BEAUTY INDIA
“You shall raise and teach your kids with the heart you live and not with the physical beauty alone”, is one of the inspiring lines that keeps on ringing in my mind always and it makes me think as to how I’ll be as a mother and how my kids would grow up to be in the years ahead.
I cannot proclaim myself as ‘the perfect woman’ but I was raised by one good woman who established so many things and positive bases in my life and it’s entirely her teachings after God’s mercy that has really led me to a graceful growth, My mother.
Just like the notions of life, the process in developing as a decent human being cannot be very smooth but under healthy beliefs and teachings, one can definitely evolve to be a rational human. It is in fact all dependent on any individual’s understanding as to whether that being can be good or bad. But with so many things happening in the world and even in our society, I feel very strongly about dignity of women and empowering the class of womanhood especially amongst the young girls that are growing up today and who are vulnerable to just so many ugly directions of the world’s gluttony.
Honest morale character and humility are two of the vital assets in a woman that can lead her on becoming the person she dreams of. It is in fact not a very easy task to be someone with high perseverance and always drawing a scale of conduct spiritually as well as in the social field and just trying to be a good human being. But I believe that without the accomplishment of making oneself to be rational and poise from the inside. To simply become a dominant figure in the world would be farfetched.
And coming to the most significant part about being a true woman, I feel that we are incredibly all different individuals but simultaneously blessed with different talents to soar high and flourish in life. There need to exist this understanding about self respect as women and also about the respect we get from the people living around us. It should be a major goal that with the talents and brains that God has given us, we should make use of it in the right way always and the most of it all.
Despite trials, we should always try to hold on to our principles and be that woman who wears Prada or Gucci because of her dedication and honest sweat. I’m also in a industry where the social media is all over when it comes to my presence in events and other projects. I’ve always been asked a number of times why I don’t carry an eminent designer’s bag or just about why I use the same phone for a very long time and not an iPhone! But I don’t do all that because I do not have the resources to be living like a princess and cannot allow myself to be seen as a rich woman when I do not have anything in reality. Perhaps, in time I can be an all designer’s girl from head to toe but for that I need to work hard and earn it. Thus, the statements of my dad always fills me up because since I was a little kid, he told me “never to forget your roots and live accordingly “.
Bringing this fact into a conclusion, I want myself and all the other young women to be dominant in any field because of our hard work alone. We should and shall carry ourselves in the name and dignity we earn and come up with. Deteriorating one’s self esteem and going with the wind by being disloyal to oneself through selling of flesh and involving in activities that would shatter ourselves and our lives would be a very false step.
Also, going about a glamorous life bragging in someone’s glory would set one’s profile to bitter embarrassment and melancholic respect. Thereafter, let’s be girls that mature into women who can definitely rule the world and bring about diverse changes and set the existing negative realms about women to stronger and positive heights.
